The Artesian 21

ILLUSION of SUCCESS ~ path to success has merit, not the goal.. Pursuing success may appear dazzling on the outside, but it can leave you feeling hollow on the inside. Your epiphany could lead to a substantial shift in your approach to your goal and daily life. Instead of focussing on what others believe to be success, investigate how your life contributes to your meaningful  identity. It's only the status that discreetly generates adoration from others, and it's a definition of success that only requires ticking off all the boxes on a hypothetical checklist. Remember that simply focussing on the concept of traditional success will not lead to success, regardless of whether you establish high  criteria or measure your worth by ticking off boxes on an imaginary checklist. In general, you hear phrases like if you work hard, you'll be happy, or success is the path to a fulfilling life. It may make sense initially, but with time, your passion may become a  relentless fixation...

PRIORITIZE the ART of SELF-CONTROL ~ exist in accordance with your authentic self.. Everyone wants to be in charge of their lives in order to live well, and as a result, we naturally control our sense organs. We are also capable of pursuing our own moral paths without becoming trapped in the musts and shoulds imposed by society. It is in our power to control our mind, intellect and nature. When we handle ourselves correctly, we can handle other people properly as well. It refers to our ability to regulate our thoughts, feelings,  and behaviours, although there are times when we are inclined to act differently and obsess over giving in. Remember that, while exercising self-control appears to be possible, it must be prioritised above all else. To achieve well-being, you must take a few critical actions to practice self-control, which you can develop by practicing it in everyday situations. Instead of automatic habitual reflexes. Being conscious of the many options enhances self-contr...

INFLUENCE of PERSPECTIVE & MINDSET ~ the key to a sustainable alternative viewpoint. . It's critical to transcend oneself and improve oneself in this more divided world. We frequently fail to recognise our own perspective on life. the lenses through which we perceive the world and our opinions, as well as the beliefs we hold. The issue is that we might act on these opinions as though they were true and fail to see reality. Why do our filters enable us to swiftly complain about the situation while only taking one side into account?  We fail to consider the possibility that we are overlooking something. Instead of looking for an alternative or idealistically walking to the other side of beliefs and ideals, we frequently see what we expect to see and strive to uncover just the facts that support us. Instead of being fixated on one side of the issue, we need to seek out opposing or other viewpoints to broaden our capacity for open-mindedness. Ask yourself what's underneath what...

COMPARISON TEMPERAMENT ~ waste no time on pointless comparison.. Constantly comparing yourself to other people can be detrimental, leading to low self-esteem and feelings of inadequacy that ultimately obstruct happiness and personal growth. It can also result in constantly negative self-talk that attacks your confidence and self-esteem, causing you to question your own abilities. Furthermore, it might encourage competition instead of genuine connection. Healthy comparisons focus on unfair, unrealistic, or unachievable comparisons to your ideal self or to others', which can cause mental instability and low self-esteem. Constructive comparison, on the other hand, can inspire you to focus on your own growth. You don't need to compare yourself to others because the definition comes from within you and is only known to you. Rather than overloading yourself with external standards, live with yourself and your definitions based on your inner self. Definitions based on other people...

ASSERTIVENESS without AGGRESSION ~ transforming fear into perseverance.. Being assertive without being aggressive involves standing up for yourself without using aggression or dominance, and it takes into account the needs and feelings of others while expressing your demands and thoughts in a direct and courteous manner. Confrontation-free assertiveness results from being direct and communicating what and when you want. Speaking up may be inhibited by the fear of being perceived as being harsh or controlling. Giving too many explanations or expressing regret for beliefs or actions that don't precisely convey confidence could be a complete annoyance. Pay attention to what other people are saying and develop the habit of communicating assertively to demonstrate that you genuinely care about their viewpoint. Additionally, assess your interactions and make necessary adjustments to your strategy. Assertiveness and aggressiveness are not the same. The former communicates with people with...

Self-Discipline cultivates Consistency ~ an open secret to keeping oneself on course..   Numerous individuals wait for certainty that never arrives. Analysis might prove inferior to action, as the most significant moments are unpredictable. You must act differently in order to open up a new path.. If you want to succeed, you can't avoid making harsh decisions since they're the antithesis of failure, which you obsess about but never solve. You can change everything if you avoid being mired in analysis and have unwavering conviction in forgoing other options. To move forward without worrying about making the wrong choice, you'll need to cut through the confusion, make a decision, and act right away. Your conscious mind can never process as much information as your instincts. Allow your brain the freedom to come up with answers, take accountability for your choices, and make failures unthinkable. Save your mental resources for the decisions that are important right now rather ...