COMPARISON TEMPERAMENT ~ waste no time on pointless comparison..

COMPARISON TEMPERAMENT ~

waste no time on pointless comparison..

Constantly comparing yourself to other people can be detrimental, leading to low self-esteem and feelings of inadequacy that ultimately obstruct happiness and personal growth. It can also result in constantly negative self-talk that attacks your confidence and self-esteem, causing you to question your own abilities.

Furthermore, it might encourage competition instead of genuine connection. Healthy comparisons focus on unfair, unrealistic, or unachievable comparisons to your ideal self or to others', which can cause mental instability and low self-esteem. Constructive comparison, on the other hand, can inspire you to focus on your own growth.

You don't need to compare yourself to others because the definition comes from within you and is only known to you. Rather than overloading yourself with external standards, live with yourself and your definitions based on your inner self. Definitions based on other people's opinions are just unfair and inaccurate, and they erode one's sense of self-worth.

Not that all competitions are awful, mind you. Healthy competition may be tremendously inspiring for all players if it is conducted with sincerity. Be grateful for what you have and enjoy what you have to offer the world. People are influenced by social oppression to compare and form quick judgements, but they fail to remember that everyone has something to compare that others do not, so they continue to compare according to their own perspective.

Inappropriate comparisons based on perceived achievements or social conventions can  intensify these feelings, making you feel inadequate or dissatisfied with your life.  Because of this, you could devalue yourself and ruin your self-esteem, which might result in anxiety or depression. It can also initiate a negative self-talk cycle.

It makes sense to use lessons learnt from the past to improve the present. Human wants and yours are not quite the same. Respect, be driven, and learn from others, but remember that comparing oneself to others diminishes your own worth. It's a good idea to compare yourself to others by asking yourself what you were yesterday, what you are today, or what you would like to be tomorrow.

With persistence, goal-setting, and process consistency, you can also use your best qualities (strengths and limitations) to assess yourself, work on your current self, and reach your ideal future self. If you stay inspired, ambitious, and determined, today can be the start of your journey to becoming everything you want to be.

The next time you find yourself in the comparison trap, pause and think about what you might be attempting to achieve by comparing yourself to other people. Acknowledge your emotions and try to pinpoint where they came from. Awareness is the first step towards meaningful change. Mindful  tactics can be quite helpful while comparing.

Here, it's better to focus on what you have  rather than what you lack. A straightforward solution is effective because it is limited and serves as a constant reminder to engage with  the real world to make a significant difference. This exercise can gradually rewire your brain to recognise either positive or negative information.

Comparing oneself to others all the time is a waste of life, which is too short and valuable. Invest your energy on making your own life more meaningful. Break the comparison tendency to improve your emotional and  mental well-being.

In conclusion, comparisons are only useful if they inspire you to strive for improvement of yourself. You must also remember that "PERSONALITY RISES where COMPARISON ENDS.”

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