YOU CAN - YOU WILL - THE KEY ELEMENT...

YOU CAN - YOU WILL -

THE KEY ELEMENT...

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As a writer, I've utilized this statement several times from the inspirational essayist, H. JACKSON BROWN, Jr.

"When you can't change the direction of the wind – adjust your sails.” 


Adjusting your sails might mean that you make life choices that put some things on hold for a while, or take you down a slightly different path than you had imagined for yourself. You might have to scale back or take a leave of absence from school or work, or ask for assistance from others.


WILLIAM ARTHUR WARD said: 

'The pessimist complains about the wind. The optimist expects it to change. 

The realist adjusts the sails."


We cannot direct the winds but we can adjust our sails. At the point when things happen that are difficulties throughout everyday life, we can make strides and "change our sails" to adjust the conditions for our own sake or better adapt to them. The “winds” here represent the external influences, other people, mother nature, and what life throws at you. Sometimes it’s a loss of a loved one or a job, an illness, or when things just don’t go your way. They all can have a powerful impact and contribute to the course of our lives.


At the point when you need to figure out how to move on, you need to change your sails and plan ahead instead of investing more energy in what's not working. we might understand that the solitary things we can change are those which we have power over, in any case, that isn't in every case simple to acknowledge. 


It could be hard to shift a direction that you've been on for quite a while. Obscure game-plan might be startling, yet essential in case you're to move on and make a move to make changes that will bring you achievement and joy. Work on supplanting negative considerations with positive ones and soon it will become programmed. Intellectually setting yourself up by get-together information about your new strategy, imagining yourself can quiet the mind and reduce the dread. 


Eliminate the negative components from your life. You might decide to keep a distance from those people who are not understanding or supportive. Put forward objectives, make a move on them, and finish what has been started. You'll before long understand your fantasies and longings for what's to come. I counsel adolescents to assist them with changing their sails. An essential activity should occur before you can get past the current stage in your life. You can genuinely change somebody's standpoint and light up their day.


Overall we must try to be flexible in life, constantly adjusting ourselves and our path in response to the world.


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