The Artesian 21

  LOOKING BEYOND ~  strengthen your borders .. °°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°° In actuality, self-assurance and intense sensitivity are quite compatible. You might realise that in spite of your confidence, you truly have a very sensitive nature. Even if you seem confident, that doesn't mean you aren't capable of experiencing hurt or despair.You may seem confident, but you're actually very sensitive. You do it because you are so confident in yourself on an innate level. Being confident is a talent that you can develop with effort, it's not just a part of who you are naturally. By facing your anxieties more often, you get stronger and develop the confidence you need to get through life. By confronting your concerns, you can earn confidence. You may be self-assured, or people may assume you have a tough skin since you constantly come across as a confident person, nevertheless, you are still a human. Even if you're hurting inside, you get so u...

  INTROSPECTION ~ A VENTURE ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~   When done properly, self-examination is a potent and beneficial technique that fosters self-awareness, improves emotional regulation skills, and promotes overall wellbeing. Your self-belief, confidence, and enthusiasm for constructive self-reflection are all boosted by the lifetime practice of self-reflection. A few techniques for constructive self-reflection can change your life. Although you won't suddenly become more self-aware, your spirit will work as a powerful catalyst for this exercise. If you believe you have handled anything in the past more well than anyone else, keeping an unconditionally positive view of yourself is a profound act of kindness. In contrast to judgement and shame, which merely increase defensiveness, self-awareness is encouraged. Acceptance encourages safety, honesty, and self-reflection. For any faults or shortcomings, one must take ownership of them. Everyone makes errors, but...

  TAPING EMPATHY ~ a gift of connection … •••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• Although we do have the ability to be kind from the moment we are born, this ability is malleable and can change as we mature and gain new knowledge. The hues that appear on the canvas shape how we see the world, how we perceive it, and how we react to it. It takes great effort and activity to show kindness. Additionally, how we might choose to entrench kindness by becoming more conscious of it beyond perceptions. Your interpretation of compassion involves engaging all of your senses. It's preferable to adjust to your fundamental consciousness in order to cultivate a kind nature because it's sometimes a difficult procedure for many who are unable to see properly beyond the premise of their immediate position. The solution is to become aware of the reality about your surroundings and the state of the world. Without a doubt, you do not need to be affluent to be kind, but you sh...

  MUDDLE of LIFE ~ the beginning of education .. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Being honest and being diplomatic can sometimes be difficult to distinguish. When selecting when to be honest and when to be diplomatically effective, we must exercise caution. We must also choose between being completely honest and using the truth as a matter of convenience. The corporate environment and discussions that each of us encounters as adults are frequently tied to diplomacy. It is a characteristic of escapists or anyone who doesn't want to miss the chance to make their friends look good. But even at a very young age, the seeds of diplomacy are planted. These seeds grow into thick-rooted plants that wreak havoc on your life.  You could occasionally find that being diplomatic prevents you from saying exactly what you want to say in a professional setting or prevents you from being loyal to your morals. Even though you want to be honest, you could worry that doing so will harm y...