FREEDOM for INDEPENDENCE ~ uplift yourself & those around you..

FREEDOM for INDEPENDENCE ~

uplift yourself & those around you..

You may be forced to rely on others to defend you if you don't have strong personal boundaries. Recognise that if you are a passive communicator, you are probably not receiving what you want or complying with what others may say in order to avoid confrontation. You  can overcome codependency and gain  newfound confidence, only by learning how to be independent.

It's essential to be patient while you relearn and figure out what works best for you on your life journey to being more independent. It is implied that you are capable of making your own choices, acting in accordance with your own principles, and leading a life that is true to who you are. It entails accepting accountability for your deeds, handling your personal affairs, and making choices free from undue outside influence.

However, you might gain more independence and feel comfortable expressing your demands, if you decide what boundaries you want to  make with both yourself and other people. You’ll have to find more enjoyable activities that will help you better understand who you are and what interests you if you want to become more self-reliant. Finding things you enjoy may take some time, but, aside from making you more  receptive to learning new things, it can make you feel fulfilled.

I would even go so far as to say that the lack of social demands can help you learn how to do things without depending on other people and allow your views, feelings, and ideals to be more fully reflected. Give up your codependent tendencies. It might be hard to let someone else make their own decisions, and much harder to see someone you care about make choices that are harmful to themselves too.

Keep in mind that you have power over your own ideas, feelings and actions, but not over the actions of others. It's acceptable to find independence difficult, but if it persists for longer than you can manage, it could become problematic. You should learn how to properly set boundaries with other people and address the underlying causes of these behaviours.

Avoid adopting a victim attitude, where you feel helpless and under the influence of other people, since this will just serve as a way to avoid accepting any accountability. In actuality, you have the final say over how you react to events, reactions, and attitudes. Empower yourself by accepting your responsibility for shaping your own experiences rather than placing the blame for your issues on others.

Be mindful of the boundaries of exerting your influence over other people. Realising the same, lessens annoyance and increases acceptance because in the end, everyone makes their own decisions, which are beyond your control. Additionally, you can't alter other people, you have to accept them for who they are. Instead of attempting to shape others to meet your standards, it's better to value their uniqueness.

Positive deeds are a good way to encourage people to change. Your sincere acts will influence them more than just words if you set a good example. You can enjoy the serenity that arises from these insights and release yourself from needless frustration by acknowledging  that you are accountable for who you are.

Giving up control over other people's welfare can be incredibly liberating. Even the most boring places can be made more joyful by maintaining your happiness.

Once you realise these facts, you gain the power to permanently change your life.                   

22II25 00:12

#mindset #perspective #patience

#attitude #consistency #transformation




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