The Artesian 21

  ESTABLISHING EFFICACY –  expressing varying degrees of desire .. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Human values are the most significant factors in life; they are so significant that people are and should be willing to make practically any sacrifice in order to live according to their ideals. Some of the final values or goal values that people strive to achieve, practise, and live with include honesty, integrity, love, and happiness. You can attain the higher order objectives by following the end values, which are constant. implies that values are transient and aid in achieving comparatively lower-order objectives. The development of values in people is influenced by society. The individual values are somewhat shaped through time by your beliefs and the dominant social systems, but the instrumental values are established by circumstances. Knowing your values enables you to live a consistent life by giving you clarity about why and what you do. Your values have an impa...

  PERCEPTIONS of REALITY ~ developing into who we are .. ********************************************* Being authentic is remaining true to your own character, principles, and spirit despite all push to do differently. When you are sincere with yourself, others, and accept responsibility for your errors, your ideals, values, and behaviour are in line. Authenticity is difficult because we mistakenly believe that our differences are what make us human, while in fact it is our similarities. Because the majority of us are developing into who we are, it is simple to lose sight of our core in daily compromises and interactions. Being honest, keeping an open mind to other people's viewpoints, and attempting to feel comfortable expressing your own point of view in response are qualities that define a genuine person. Additionally, practise self-reflection, cultivate self-awareness, and strengthen your self-esteem. Where integrity, ethics, and values are unquestionably upheld, authenticity ...

ENHANCING STANDARDS ~               a lifestyle of excellence .. ============================ Your ability to smile any negative emotions away is essential to enhancing your quality of life. Just smiling can drastically alter how you feel at any given moment. It is a highly individualised self-evaluation of a person's general wellbeing. Keep moving, be thankful for what you have, learn something new every day, and organise your thoughts. The degree to which a person can engage in or appreciate life events is their level of excellence. By striking a balance between these occurrences rather than concentrating on just one, you can raise your level of living. Keep an eye on and check all of your spending. Automated savings are a good idea.  To accumulate funds for investing opportunities, you need to save between 20 and 30 percent of your salary.  Your level of financial security is crucial to your well-being a...

  DELIGHTFUL INTERACTIONS ~ stir up impulses of emotion .. •°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°•°• Kindness, selflessness, friendship, and affection are always more valuable than material possessions. The most exquisite things in life aren't possessions at all, but rather people, places, memories, and ideas. Basically, it's the thoughts, emotions, moments, smiles, and giggles. The human need for beauty is not merely superficial; it actually plays a crucial role in how you see and engage with the environment. You develop relationships with your surroundings, the scenery, art, and even other people when you are surrounded by beauty. It is a sensation, and among all feelings, no matter how unpleasant, it brings grace, positivism, and delight. Recognize that it takes a collection of shadows, not just one, to produce a masterpiece. A wide range of emotions, including intrigue, amazement, transcendence, wonder, and admiration, are experienced dur...

FIDELITY ~ a devotion to the cause .. ☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆ Trustiness is a virtue that we value in various kinds of relationships, and it is much more than just the absence of mistreatment. It also means being there for someone through ups and downs, staying by their side no matter the circumstances, accepting and loving someone for who they are, and supporting them when things get tough. It is important to be consistent in your treatment, behaviour, appreciation and respect for the other person, dependable and reliable, someone you can rely on, who treats another person with kindness, fairness and generosity. When you share your thoughts and feelings, you show a willingness to come out and get to know others in an authentic and open way. Trustworthiness can strengthen relationships because people are more honest and open when they know the other person is loyal. It builds trust and closeness in relationships. When you feel others are loyal ...

  THE TRANSITION ~ mid-life time of contentment .. ¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤ The only thing you know for sure is that you are born and then you die. The older you get, the clearer the reality of time becomes. One fine morning, you are no longer able to ignore the internal clock that is ticking away every moment towards the inevitable end  When you are young, it's easier to live life to the fullest and try to make the most of every moment of your day to create a series of priceless memories. But as we get older, something changes. It's easy to lose sight of life as a place of limitless wonder. The realities of growing up and the visible physical changes can make a person see out of focus  The moment you realise you are middle-aged, you immediately believe that the reality of change, development and precious existence would send you into anxious thoughts. But the opposite is true, it is possible to experience happiness, cultivate personal peace and live a ha...

  Conquering Doldrums ~ a state of stagnation..   •▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎•▪︎• "Getting Stuck", not an easy question to answer, because "stuckness" can take different forms. This situation can leave you wondering what direction to go next. Your needs, your desires, your hopes - all of these evolve from the fact that people change over time. Sometimes the challenge becomes even greater, especially when people negatively influence your decision, which can be debilitating. This can make you feel like you aren't living up to your authentic self. It's hard to move forward when you're struggling with these negative thoughts and feelings. You might struggle with self-doubt, fear of making a mistake, or perfectionism. You may know what you need to do to break free of the impasse, but feel uncomfortable moving forward. There are numerous ways you can break free of the impasse. There's no reason...